Big penis sex tips 101: Topping advice from experts

This story originally appeared on Out.Having a small penis can cause feelings of shame and performance anxiety, but having a very large penis can cause its own set of issues. A big penis can seem like a “my steak is too juicy, my lobster is too buttery” kind of problem, but having a porn star-sized dick can actually make your sex life more complicated — especially if you’re a top who loves anal sex.Some guys are going to see you as their fantasy come to life, or feel like bottoming for you is equivalent to the Mount Everest of sex. But while having the supposed ideal-sized pole between your legs might have the person you’re sleeping with worshipping you, you’re also going to need to slow your roll and take extra time to prep your partner so you don’t hurt them.If you’re well-endowed, you probably don’t have any problem scoring a hookup whenever you want, but simply having a big dick isn’t enough if you want to be a god in the bedroom. Don’t know where to start? Don’t worry. If you are above average and want to up your skills so you can blow people away with more than just your size alone, we have expert-approved tips and tricks so that your next hookup will be so impressed by your sexual prowess that they ask for a repeat performance.What is a macropenis or oversized male genitalia?The average size of an erect penis is 4.5 to 6.5 inches, whereas a macropenis or “oversized male genitalia” (OMG) typically refers to a penis that is more than 7.5 or 8 inches long.“Macropenis generally refers to a penis significantly larger than average, though people often use the term more loosely in everyday conversation,” says Chris Bustamante, an aesthetic nurse practitioner and owner of the men’s clinic Lushful Aesthetics. “Clinically, this is not a diagnosis most men need to worry about. A larger-than-average penis is not inherently a medical or dating problem. It just means sex may require more communication, patience, and partner selection.”